January 6, 2016

Get Her To Say Yes – What it Feels Like To Be a Nice Guy

Get Her To Say Yes - What it Feels Like To Be a Nice Guy


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In this video Allana Pratt talks about what it feel like to be the nice guy, and if you are one, what you can do about it, to get her to say yes.

A nice guy is a people pleaser

Fact. Nice guys are often people pleaser’s. This means that they live their life from the outside in. They are always looking outside of themselves to find happiness and what a nice guy needs to do is learn how to find that self assurance and confidence from the inside first.

If you are a nice guy, try and say no. You don’t have to be aggressive with this. But if a girl asks you to do something, say ‘I’m really sorry, but I can’t right now’ and see how she responds to this. If she gets mad at you then she is just one of those girls who wants to use and abuse a nice guy and she is not the kind of woman that you want to settle down with anyway is she?

Understand that being confidence is still being nice

Nice guys often only see things in black and white and think that being confident means that they have to become this cocky, self assured player. But being confident means you can still be you, just don’t keep looking to please others all the time. Know, that by just being YOU, this will please the right people, and they will love you for who you are! Ladies love confident men but they hate players, so you have an advantage here, you can have the best of both worlds, as you can be nice and you can also be confident and not a push over and women love this.

At the same time they will adore you for making them feel safe as they know, that you do not want to hurt them or cheat on them so all in all, you can become the guy that every woman is dreaming of meeting.

You can be who you want to be just like that

The main thing to take away is that this is all just learned behaviour and you can be who you want to be, just like that. Make a choice to be you, and to quit the needy act, and this is who you are, from the moment that you choose to be that you.

If you label yourself and say ‘oh I am too nice’, this is just a story that you are used to telling yourself and you have gotten used to living up to a role. Quit doing that and just let yourself be you.

When you tell yourself you are the ideal man, you are confident and also nice, then in 21 days this is the habit that you will form, and that’s as easy as it is – you just form a habit and that’s that. Let things happen, let yourself be happy. You do deserve it, and you just need to flick a switch basically, to set yourself free from the darkness. It’s that simple.

About Allana Pratt

Featured on CBS, TLC, FOX; coach to celebrities, a cum laude graduate of Columbia, Allana’s a single mom who triumphed over an internal war of body shame and sexual guilt that was destroying her confidence, joy and softness. Now, author of three books, she pole dances for pleasure, and knows ‘When Mama’s happy, everybody’s happy!’ She inspires women to embrace their sacred erotic nature to attract all the love and attention they choose; she heals men’s emasculated hearts, cures their ‘nice guy’ and awakens their noble badass honoring of women.

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