March 6, 2016

From Amazing to Crazy on Date 3! By Allana Pratt

From Amazing to Crazy on Date 3! By Allana Pratt


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In this video Allana Pratt talks about what to do when the AMAZING person you are seeing turns to crazy in a few short dates.

Best Behavior

On the first few dates everyone is on their best behavior.  They are trying to impress and present themselves in their very best light.  This is normal, common human behavior and everyone does it.  It is also common for people to have triggers and get angry.  However, it is even more common for someone to go “crazy” when they are trying to be something they are not.  People will wear many masks in the beginning and it is hard to maintain those.

The Mirror Effect

In this situation you are probably also wearing a mask.  In the beginning you were very attracted to this person, but when she started to show signs of not being what you thought, you pulled back yourself.  You were wearing the mask of the gentleman.  Each of you was mirroring the mask of the other.

Show up Mask Free

Bring intimacy, authenticity, true real communication, mask free, best behavior free from the very beginning.  Be two real people.  Non-judgmentally notice what is going on.  Stop being the gentleman and pretend nothing happened.  Notice that she is tense and let her know you’re there.  Don’t judge her, but be curious.  If she’s willing to put down her mask too and communicate with you it will help the two of you connect.

In any relationship things are going to get uncomfortable.  If after an amazing three dates, things get a little crazy it’s a good opportunity for you to see if the two of you are able to navigate these types of situations.  It may be that she’s completely nuts and you need to move on, but it may also be that the two of you can learn to communicate together.  Be real, be open and honest, and let down your mask.  If she responds in kind it can be the beginning of a strong relationship.

About Allana Pratt

Featured on CBS, TLC, FOX; coach to celebrities, a cum laude graduate of Columbia, Allana’s a single mom who triumphed over an internal war of body shame and sexual guilt that was destroying her confidence, joy and softness. Now, author of three books, she pole dances for pleasure, and knows ‘When Mama’s happy, everybody’s happy!’ She inspires women to embrace their sacred erotic nature to attract all the love and attention they choose; she heals men’s emasculated hearts, cures their ‘nice guy’ and awakens their noble badass honoring of women.

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